the black nathalie sancoeur.

This is the only time I'm gonna talk about my mother.

I will never settle again for anyone I know that. I settled once already, and I refuse to do it again.

Apr 29 • harriyanna (thee captain)

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Who's afraid of Zooble?

Zooble isn’t a perfect victim; therefore, it makes it harder for people to sympathize with them.

Apr 18 • harriyanna (thee captain)

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March 2026

It's ok to have a small event.

I know we see on social media everyone having fun at these mid- to large-scale conventions. Some want to host those events. But you don’t have to be too…

Mar 18 • harriyanna (thee captain)

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Did I really bring out the worst in him?

It’s not my fault that being authentically myself irritated him so much.

Mar 14 • harriyanna (thee captain)

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The truth about running a business for 5 years.

My business helps me get by, but I’m not rich at all, not even close to it.

Mar 11 • harriyanna (thee captain)

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The growing disregard for panels at conventions.

To act like panelists aren’t doing anything important at the convention is just disrespectful.

Mar 7 • harriyanna (thee captain)

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February 2026

Galentine’s: Why would a man be there!?

Men stay in women’s business! Why are you over here?

Feb 14 • harriyanna (thee captain)

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He beat me, and I'm tired of pretending he didn’t.

How miserable do I have to be before you’re happy?

Feb 7 • harriyanna (thee captain)

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What happens after your friend dies?

Overall, this personal essay about my grief for T’Shauna feels embarrassing.

Feb 1 • harriyanna (thee captain)

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January 2026

I wrote a memoir about female friendships that ended because of male-centered behavior.

I cried too much writing this.

Jan 24 • harriyanna (thee captain)

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Maybe it's a good thing your favorite media doesn't have a big fandom.

As Chelley Bissainthe said, I'm genuinely confused.

Jan 21 • harriyanna (thee captain)

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Why do y'all forgive famous men who beat pregnant women?

I refuse to believe that there is a reasonable excuse for a cis man to hit someone pregnant.

Jan 10 • harriyanna (thee captain)

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