I related so much to this sentiment. It's a big reason in why I refuse to attend BlerdCon again. It's a big reason why I am no longer even partially involved in the black anime spaces in my city (of which I've attended a few woeful events). Too often, non-cishet men are offered up like food in these spaces and their voices are ignored. Allegations are also often swept under the rug. It's a shame but I've come to understand that I cannot be around men with my hobbies and be safe in these environments.
I related so much to this sentiment. It's a big reason in why I refuse to attend BlerdCon again. It's a big reason why I am no longer even partially involved in the black anime spaces in my city (of which I've attended a few woeful events). Too often, non-cishet men are offered up like food in these spaces and their voices are ignored. Allegations are also often swept under the rug. It's a shame but I've come to understand that I cannot be around men with my hobbies and be safe in these environments.
Great read
thank you so much <3